You do not have to fight with a bully at all just ignore and walk away. Displace him or her with a walk in the park. Do not let them have power over you. Mind your own business and focus on your own life. After the bullying all they do is be lost in their own thoughts, sleep and do same the following day.
So,
Make the rental space in your mind really high end. Better yet put a no vacancy sign and bullies will be shot by the Police metaphorically.
You do not have to suffer at all. As long as you did nothing wrong you are innocent and do not deserve that treatment. Nobody can make you feel less or damage your dignity without your permission.
Avoid them like the plague. If you need to do a Forest Gump go ahead and do so and run! Forest, run!
Why are they doing those things to you? Elementary really, evil exists in the world. The devil is lurking for a prey.
You may have something that they want. The best thing you can do is just say, no! And, when they realize that no matter how hard they try, they will never ever shake you. Then, they would be off to their next candidate.
Simple and peaceful.
They will realize that they are just wasting their time and money.
Again, focus on yourself, family, and, friends.
Enjoy life! Chill! You do not know when you are going home to heaven.
Think about it. Those bullies, they may be going to purgatory or much worse to hell.
That my friend is the consequence of evil. Each one is accountable to each sin we committed.
Be responsible.
Be respectful.
Be kind.
Be wise.
Remember to stand your ground. God is the only one who knows you and who can truly read your mind.
It may be helpful to develop a leather skin. Let it pass. Forget about it. Laugh about it.
Forgive. Forgive. And, multiply that as much as what the Bible reveals...
If you cannot fathom the reason why they are picking on you then maybe they have issues, and projections, and insecurities, and evil intentions, bad words and the whole nine yards.
If you have nothing to say then it is better not to say anything at all. How blessed are the mute and deaf.
An elevated solution would be to pray to God. To understand them. And, to love them.
Love thy enemy so it states in the Bible.
May you be inspired by the Holy Spirit and God bless!
-Bob
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