We will only realize the value of someone or something until that someone or something is already gone. Yes, a poignant lesson we should like to learn early on to spare ourselves of regrets in the end.
At first, we may feel angry or confused but if we try to put ourselves in the shoes of that someone or maybe try to fathom the disappearance of that something, then we could understand why.
Cliché as it may sound, everything happens for a reason. Yes, Sir.
Never take the matter personally, as always, it is not our business. It is a natural human phenomenon. And oftentimes, an act of God.
But by chance or more so a blessing, it may even be one in a billion, that the person comes back and explains to you the grand scheme of the jigsaw puzzle—then, hopefully—you will be comforted, be reassured, and the dark clouds will be dissipated. Hence, you are no longer in the dark. Illumination.
In the final analysis, people will go through these five stages: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. It may or may not be in that particular order or all those stages, but at least it, knowing them in the first place, will help pull us through. Godspeed!
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